Seize the day!

if the problem can be solved, why worry?
meaning that you should not worry since the problem can be solved

if the problem cannot be solved, why worry?
meaning that since the problem cannot be solved,
worrying will not help/change the situation

a good example
was when my baby sitter said that some reckless driver knock her daughters new car
she was laughing/relaxed when she said it
and it got me think that i would like to be like that
no need to stress myself out
some other people in the same situation may probably :-
- be really stressed when relating the story
- frowning with many wrinkle lines like a shar pei
- talking loudly
- many hand actions/gestures
- angry
- upset
- blame the daughter
- etc etc etc

but my baby sitter chose to laugh!
she is cool

# posted by Newton @ 12:34 PM